When Fantasy Becomes Reality

Wednesday, 21 October 2015 18:02 Written by  Published in Sex & Relationships Read 1367 times
As I lay here with my eyes closed and my toys ready, fantasizing about Mr. Mandingo doing the thing I dream of most, just when I was about to have the biggest….
“MOM! Why is your door locked?” and just like that it ended!

Just like me most women sit around and fantasize about very naughty things. When it comes to dreaming up the sauciest of fantasies, most don’t bother limiting themselves to traditional in the bedroom missionary or doggie style. The top 10 female sex fantasies covers everything from fetishes to threesomes, and you may be surprised to know that many women want to do more than just fantasize. Some women spend just as much time hoping their men will help put their female sex fantasies into practice.

Your fantasy is always with you, playing in your head over and over like an old rerun movie. If you are imprisoned in any way—by your religion, your partner etc. your fantasies become your freedom. Sometimes your ability to fantasize is the only freedom you have.

But what if you make your fantasy into a reality!

The usual fantasy for men is a threesome and some women would go along with the act to appease their male partner; but women are catching up as it becomes more acceptable for us to admit we’d like to be with two hot men at once doubling our fun and pleasure.

Having sex somewhere other than the comfort of your own home is a really big turn on. Having sex outside in the open is something a lot of women are too shy to do but think of regularly. Sex can get repetitive in long relationships and changing the scenery can help spice things up. Public places indoors are also part of the fantasy; airplanes, public bathrooms, dressing rooms are all places many women have thought about having sex.

Don’t be scared if you get caught, (except if you get arrested, ha!) you can just move the activity to the next public place you find, or even outside. Being scared is all part of what makes it so hot!

Another fantasy for women is making a sex video. While men may be more visual, women are interested in porn too! Women reach their peak arousal after just two minutes into an erotic film. After you watch it, though, make sure to hide it safely or quickly delete it.

Sharing a fantasy with a stranger? Here's an easy one both men and women enjoy. There's something sexy and mysterious about anonymity. An easy way to get in on the trend is to turn yourselves into strangers. No matter how long you've known your partner, pretend you don't know him at all. Choose different clothes, new hairstyles, different personalities, and different names. Start by meeting at a bar, then take your new friend home—and stay in character the entire time.

There are tons of fantasies to try with your significant other. Share your desires, experiment, and discover what works best for you both as a couple. You may surprise yourself—and get closer to your partner in the process.

Last modified on Wednesday, 21 October 2015 18:13
Donna Savage

Donna Savage is the Founder and president of Savage Desires, an online retailer of name brand sex toys, that  also offers workshops for women.

Donna started this business to let women know it’s ok to love all of you and to listen and understand your body when it’s talking to you. If you ever feel that urge and your partner is nowhere in site or you're single, its ok to masturbate.

Once upon a time Donna was that woman who didn’t understand that women should enjoy or participate in the act of love making. Sex was for procreation otherwise it was required to satisfy your partner.

Donna had to unlearn all of those negative thoughts to become the woman she is today.
Sex is about physical pleasure but can also enhance your intimate emotional bond with someone special through communication during the act or after the fact.

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