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30 Mar 2014

Let's Talk About Sex - our new column "Ask Vee: Sex, Relationships, Sexuality"

Being a naturally shy person, I am not so great at introductions. I get awkward, and shy, and often times I get fidgety. It can be quite sad to watch actually. However, nervousness aside, it is very important that I introduce myself

and what this column will bring. Let’s get the shy awkward part of the way so we can become real comfortable with one another. I am Victoria Grant and this is the new sex and relationships column at byblacks.com where I will be writing about…you guessed it – sex and relationships. This happens to be great for me because sex happens to be my absolute favourite subject! I love sex. Quelle surprise!

A little about the column and what I hope to bring and provide: This space is a sex positive space. What do I mean by sex positive? I mean my personal views surrounding sex and sexuality is that it is pleasurable and meant to be fully enjoyed and experimented with. I don’t hold any limited views when it comes to sex. I believe folks should embrace their sexuality and have as much sex as they possibly can with whomever they choose as long as the sex is positive, pleasurable, safe and 100% consensual. I envision the column to be a space for learning, sex education and sharing through providing personal opinions and advice mixed with research material. We can all learn something new, including myself. In reading the column, there may be something that resonates specifically to what you or someone you know may be going through. Collective learning, sharing, educating, and growing – these are the goals.

In this, I hope that we will have a long, healthy, openly communicative relationship. I believe the foundation to any good relationship is trust. The good folks at byblacks have given me my own fancy email address and I want to use it. This is where our foundation of trust comes in. Anonymity and confidentiality is key and held in the highest regard here. Have a question you would like answered? Send it to me. Want an unbiased third party opinion about a complicated relationship issue you’re having? Send those to me too. Names and contact information will never be published. We’ll only use initials and/or extremely clever acronyms. Trust that this space is free from judgement. The column is a tool to have open, honest dialogue about our sexuality, the various ways in which we engage in sex with our partner or partners, and our relationships.

So with all the preliminary stuff taken care of and the introductions out of the way, I feel like I can loosen my collar a bit. Well in my case, I feel like I can remove my fishnet stockings. What shall the first topics be about? Shall we tackle surviving infidelity, relationship types, sex positions, or the art of performing oral sex? I do say art of performing oral sex because I am a firm believer that giving good head is an art. And I believe it is an art form that one should strive to continuously master. What do you want to talk about? Don’t be shy! Have a question? Ask me. Feel free to drop me a line. I want to hear from you. Stay tuned to the column, sit back and enjoy the ride - umm, both figuratively and literally.

Vee.

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